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Getting Focused In Your Business as a Mom

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Getting Focused In Your Business As A Mom

As a mom, getting focused can feel tough. That mix of excitement and “wait, how am I actually going to do this?” happens to all of us! Here’s the good news: you can absolutely make it work. Today, let’s dive into some of my favorite ways to get clear, stay on track, and focus deeply, so you can build a business that feels aligned and sustainable.

Let’s get real—starting a business as a mom is a big deal, and things can get messy. With a plan, clarity, and a focus-first approach, you’ll move forward faster than you might expect.


Step 1: Get Clear and Stay Clear

The first step to getting focused on your business comes with understanding that clarity isn’t a “one and done” deal. Clarity develops over time. Moments of insight pop up and help you feel like you’ve got it all figured out. But don’t feel surprised if that clarity fades a bit, or you encounter what I call a “clarity hangover.” This happens after feeling fired up by a podcast episode, conference, or inspiring conversation, only to find reality setting back in. Suddenly, that clarity feels… a little fuzzier.

Here’s the trick: Don’t panic when that happens. Clarity unfolds with each step. Each action you take builds on the last. You don’t get all the clarity at once; you take action, try new things, and figure out what works (and what doesn’t). As you get focused on building your business, embrace this process. Move forward with each step and know that every action brings you closer to a clear vision.


Step 2: Get Focused by Setting Boundaries

Focus acts as the secret sauce for balancing life as a mom and an entrepreneur. Getting focused rarely happens in a single decision; it’s a choice you make daily. That’s why setting boundaries matters. Strong boundaries help you prioritize your business and family in ways that feel good.

  • Set a Schedule: Use time-blocking to carve out specific “business time” and “family time.” Whether that time comes in early mornings, nap times, or after school, find your pockets to fully focus on each role without overlap.
  • Notice Your Procrastination Triggers: Let’s be honest—sometimes we’d rather do the dishes than finish that sales email. It’s human! Spotting moments when you drift away from your priorities helps you reel your focus back in. Getting focused means noticing distractions and actively choosing to set them aside.

Step 3: Create Focus Milestones

I love setting focus milestones to keep things moving forward. You know that feeling when a new idea lights you up, and you want to dive in and start right away? That energy feels amazing, but it can also leave you with a pile of half-finished projects. Focus milestones allow you to use that excitement without losing progress on the projects that matter most.

How to Set Focus Milestones:

  1. Define a Milestone Goal: For example, if you’re launching a new product, set a goal like, “I’ll start my new project after 500 email sign-ups for this one.” This keeps the excitement alive, while also keeping you committed to what’s in front of you.
  2. Stay Accountable: Share your focus milestones with someone you trust—maybe inside BossMom+ or with a mentor. Accountability keeps you going, even on days when the thrill of new ideas feels stronger than your desire to finish a current project.

Focus milestones help you balance new ideas with current goals and keep your energy centered, so you don’t end up with a bunch of half-finished ideas and no real progress. You can learn exactly how to do this in our Strategic Planning course. 


Step 4: Build a Support Network When Getting Focused Feels Tough

Let’s be real—building a business as a mom can feel isolating sometimes. Getting focused becomes much easier when you surround yourself with people who understand. Community support makes all the difference.

Inside BossMom+, we share wins, brainstorm together, and motivate each other through the ups and downs of business and motherhood. Building a network of other moms who understand the juggle helps you stick to your goals and follow through on your plans.

Remember: You don’t have to do this alone. Having other Boss Moms cheering you on and providing feedback gives you the boost you need when things get tough.


Step 5: Keep Your Vision Clear and Stay Flexible

There’s one last part to getting focused—keeping your vision clear while staying flexible enough to shift when needed. Running a business and raising a family takes constant balancing, and sometimes priorities change. That’s okay! Revisit your vision often and check in with what’s working.

Ask yourself:

  • Does this still align with my goals?
  • Am I moving toward the business I want to build?
  • Does my focus stay on the right things for this season?

When you keep your vision clear and stay grounded in what matters most, focus becomes more manageable. It’s not about getting everything done at once; it’s about getting the right things done at the right time.


Getting Focused with BossMom+

Ready to go deeper and stay focused on your goals? BossMom+ was designed just for you. Inside, you’ll get expert advice, support, and a like-minded community to help you stay on track. Picture yourself surrounded by other moms who know exactly what it’s like to grow a business while raising a family. Together, we work on clarity, set realistic goals, and create momentum, all while keeping each other accountable.

Take the next step with BossMom+ and gain the focus, support, and community you need to bring your business dreams to life. Getting focused doesn’t have to happen alone—we do this together.


Starting a business as a mom requires clarity, learning, and some serious focus. With the right tools, strategies, and community, getting focused becomes a lot easier (and way more fun!). Whether you’re just starting out or looking to grow, remember that focus is a journey, and we’re here to support you every step of the way.

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Dana Malstaff

Dana Malstaff

Dana Malstaff is the Founder of Boss Mom and creator Nurture to Convert.
She is a mother, author, speaker, messaging strategist, podcaster, blind spot reducer, and movement maker. She believes that too many brilliant moms are struggling to figure out how to grow their business while balancing all that is required to be a good mom, partner, and woman. So many moms are trying to grow their business using trends that feel inauthentic and aren't realistic for their inconsistent schedules. She has helped thousands of women become known for their brain and not their dance moves