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Attachment Styles In Business With Thais Gibson

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Attachment Styles in Business. How They Impact Your Success

This post is all about something super important that you might not even realize is affecting your business—your attachment styles in business! Yup, we’re talking about how your personal attachment style can play a huge role in the way you show up as a business owner, parent, and partner. And we’ve got the perfect guest to help us dive deep into this topic—Thais Gibson, co-founder of the Personal Development School and bestselling author of Learning  Love.

Thais is an expert in attachment theory, and in this episode, we’re going to talk about how understanding your attachment style can change the way you do business. So grab your notebook, get comfy, and let’s dive in!

 

What Are Attachment Styles?

Before we dig into how your attachment style affects your business, let’s do a quick refresher on what attachment styles are.

In simple terms, your attachment style is the way you connect and interact in relationships, whether it’s with your partner, your kids, or even your business! There are four main attachment styles:

  • Secure: You feel good about setting boundaries and building strong relationships.
  • Anxious Preoccupied: You crave reassurance and often worry about being abandoned.
  • Dismissive Avoidant: You tend to avoid emotional closeness and prefer independence.
  • Fearful Avoidant: You want connection but fear rejection, so you keep your distance.

Now, you’re probably wondering, “How does this relate to running a business?” Well, it turns out these patterns don’t just show up in personal relationships—they sneak into your business relationships too! Let’s break it down.

 

How Attachment Styles Show Up in Business

  1. Secure Attachment in Business

    If you have a secure attachment style, running your business probably feels pretty balanced. You’re good at setting boundaries, delegating tasks, and trusting others. You don’t need constant reassurance, and you’re resilient when things get tough. Entrepreneurs with a secure attachment style are usually pretty confident and able to handle the ups and downs without stressing too much.

     

  2. Anxious Preoccupied in Business

    If you identify with the anxious preoccupied style, you might notice that you over-give in your business. You want everyone to feel happy, so you say “yes” to everything, even if it means overworking yourself. Sound familiar? You might let coaching calls run too long, or feel guilty when you’re not giving 110%. The need for approval and fear of letting people down can be overwhelming.

    But here’s the thing—you don’t have to overextend yourself to be loved or appreciated. Learning to set healthy boundaries in your business can help you feel more balanced and avoid burnout. You can still provide incredible value without sacrificing your own well-being.

     

  3. Dismissive Avoidant in Business

    If you lean toward dismissive avoidant, you might value independence to the point where you struggle to delegate or ask for help. You could be keeping people at arm’s length, avoiding emotional closeness, and feeling resistant to feedback or criticism. This attachment style can make you feel isolated in your business or hesitant to collaborate with others.

    The truth is, business is all about relationships. It’s okay to trust others and ask for help! You don’t have to do it all alone. Finding ways to let people in, little by little, can strengthen your business and make things so much easier.

     

  4. Fearful Avoidant in Business

    With a fearful avoidant style, you might have a push-pull dynamic going on. You want to grow your business, but you fear failure and rejection, so you hold back. It’s like you start strong, but the moment things get tough, you retreat and self-sabotage. Sound familiar?

    The key here is recognizing that it’s okay to take small, manageable steps instead of going full throttle all the time. You don’t have to be perfect or fearless to succeed. Consistency is your friend.

How Attachment Styles Affect Business Growth

So, how does your attachment style really impact your business? Well, it affects everything from how you lead your team to how you handle stress, conflict, and even growth opportunities.

For example, if you’re anxious preoccupied, you might find it hard to let go of control and delegate tasks, constantly feeling the need to oversee everything. On the flip side, if you’re dismissive avoidant, you might struggle to ask for help, leading to burnout or isolation.

But here’s the good news: understanding your attachment style is the first step toward changing it. Just like you can work on your mindset around money or success, you can shift your attachment style to be more secure, and that can make a world of difference in how you run your business.

 

How to Move Toward a Secure Attachment in Business

Thais shared some amazing insights on how to move from insecure attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, or fearful) to a more secure attachment style. This shift can completely transform the way you approach your business and your life. Here’s how you can start:

  1. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no when needed and protect your time and energy. It’s okay to not be available 24/7.
  2. Communicate Your Needs: Let your clients, team, and even family know what you need to thrive. Clear communication can save you so much stress.
  3. Trust Yourself and Others: Delegating and asking for help doesn’t mean you’re not capable—it means you’re smart! Trust your team and your systems.

Building a Business that Feels Aligned

The best part about understanding your attachment style? It helps you build a business that feels aligned with who you are. When you understand why you react in certain ways—whether it’s in a client meeting, during a launch, or when setting goals—you can create healthier habits that support your growth.

 

If you’re ready to take that next step in growing your business and want a community that really gets what it’s like to juggle motherhood and entrepreneurship, BossMom+ is where you need to be. It’s our exclusive social network for moms, and it’s the perfect place to connect with like-minded women who are going through the same journey as you.

 

Head over to BossMom+ to join today! You’ll get access to live forums, community events, and a distraction-free space where we dive into all the juicy topics like this one. Plus, it’s a great place to keep growing both as a mom and a business owner.

 

And there you have it, Boss Moms! Understanding your attachment style can completely change the way you run your business, making it more fulfilling and less stressful. If you’ve got questions or want to chat more about this episode, hop into BossMom+ and join the conversation. I promise you’ll find a supportive, welcoming space to connect with other moms like you.

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Dana Malstaff

Dana Malstaff

Dana Malstaff is the Founder of Boss Mom and creator Nurture to Convert.
She is a mother, author, speaker, messaging strategist, podcaster, blind spot reducer, and movement maker. She believes that too many brilliant moms are struggling to figure out how to grow their business while balancing all that is required to be a good mom, partner, and woman. So many moms are trying to grow their business using trends that feel inauthentic and aren't realistic for their inconsistent schedules. She has helped thousands of women become known for their brain and not their dance moves

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